Safety & privacy

Getting to know someone.
On your terms.

Controls help you choose how you take part. No profile or verification label can guarantee someone’s identity or safety.

Control contact

Report concerns and block unwanted contact. A block does not send the other person a notification.

Pause discovery while keeping existing conversations. Select your city without sharing device position.

Photo review is not identity verification. Porchkeep does not conduct criminal background checks.

Arrange your own transport. Tell someone you trust about your plan. Leave if you feel uncomfortable.

Contact safety@plainspan.com, or use the dedicated removal process for an intimate image shared without consent. No account is needed to read it.

For immediate danger, contact local emergency services.